Make sure you check up on your love ones regularly.
Make sure you know that they are fine
Make sure you are there for them.
Sometimes just because someone is smiling doesn’t mean that they are alright.
Sometimes just because someone is laughing doesn’t mean that they are happy
Sometimes just because someone says that they are fine or that they are okay doesn’t mean that they are truly fine.
You might be thinking why should I bother myself? They are an adult, if they are not okay then they should just say so and I will see how I can help, why should they hide it.
It’s not about hiding it, most of the time they love you so much and feel that they shouldn’t burden you with their problems.
Most of the time they feel and think that telling you the problem wouldn’t reduce the pain, so why tell you?
Most of the time they feel that their problem is too small and that they can handle it, not knowing that they need help to be able to handle it.
Most of the time they feel that you might use their problems to hurt them cause someone else promised to help but instead laughed at them or used their problems to hurt them.
And many more reason.
So make sure that your love ones are always okay when they say that they are
Make sure that when they smile, it is a real smile and that they are not pretending to be happy.
It might be a hard task but these are our your love ones and we must try our best to make sure that they are truly happy.
So remember; Always analyze the ‘i am fine’
And ; Always check the smile.