Let them send their negativity

The negative vibe that they send towards you can be changed to a positive vibe.

Do you know why I said this? It’s because I want you to take their hatred and criticism and make it your motivation.

When they say negative things about you, when they say hurtful things, when they say shit about you, I want you to take their negativity as water and use that water to water your garden.

So the more negative vibes they send your way, the more water, the more water you have,the more your garden blossoms and becomes beautiful.

Let me give you an example, few days ago their was this person who was making fun of my accent,this person came on my TikTok account just to make fun of my accent but I didn’t even reply and the next morning I was thinking why will someone say hurtful things to another person for no reason?

Why will someone comment negative things on about a person’s video, photo, blog etc?

So I decided to write this blog, that person’s negativity inspired me to write this blog and that is why I say that you should take their negativity,hatred and criticism as your motivation.

When you are working to lose weight and they tell you that you can never lose weight, use those words and whenever you are working out and you wanna stop then think about their words, that will certainly motivate you keep going. It’s not only about losing weight, if you are working out for your glutes or to gain muscles and they tell you that you can’t,then prove them wrong, use their negativity as your motivation.

If they tell you that you can’t pass your exams, that you will not succeed, that you will certainly fail, then remember what I told you.

When you use their negativity as motivation then you confuse them because they wouldn’t know what to do, in the sense that if they keep quiet and do not say shit about you then you will have your peace of mind and you are totally fine and if they say shit about you, you use it as a fuel, as a motivation and you get better, so either way you are fine and this confuses them because they wouldn’t know what to do, should they say shit or should they keep quiet?

2 REASONS WHY THEY SAY SHIT ABOUT YOU

One reason why they say negative shit about you is because they want what you have meaning that they are jealous,probably this person wants to workout but they don’t have the discipline to, probably they used to workout but due to lack of commitment they stopped and now that they see that you are making an effort, they start hating on you so that you will become like them.

That person who was making fun of my accent,probably the person wants to have an accent but he or she doesn’t and now the only thing the person can do is throw negative shit at the people who have an accent.

When they tell you that your relationship will not last, that you guys are not a match etc most of the time it’s because they want what you have.

Another reason is because they are insecure, they have issues and instead of taking care of their problems they say negative shits and criticize people because that makes them feel better.

A person might tell you that you are ugly and the only reason this person called you ugly is because this person feels that he or she is ugly and to make himself or herself better she has to say hurtful things to someone.

From this moment onwards I want you to use their hatred, their negativity, their criticism etc as your motivation, your water and your fuel. Use it as inspiration to become better.

Bipolar

The feeling of emptiness

The feeling of unworthiness

The feeling of not being good enough

The feeling of loneliness.

Have you ever been in a situation whereby your heart is beating but you feel like you are dead or rather you wish you were dead?

Have you ever been in a situation whereby you are hurting so badly but still you have to hide it because you don’t want your loved ones to get hurt?

Have you ever been in a situation whereby the only thing that makes you feel better is when you hurt yourself physically?

When I say situation don’t get me wrong because I don’t mean just once, because it keeps happening. Sometimes this feeling will keep occurring everyday of the week but sometimes if luck is on your side then It might last for a day or few days.

Do you know how hard it is when your mind tells you to kill yourself and no matter how much you try to not kill yourself your mind emerges victorious and the funny thing is after you’ve tried to kill your but you fail, this same mind will curse you and tell you that you’re hurting your family, look at the pain that they are going through all because of you.

Having an amazing bed but sometimes you sleep on the toilet floor.

There’s nothing more scary in my dictionary than BIPOLAR.

You will be fine.

You can’t tell your friends because they will think that you’re crazy.

People that do not understand keep telling you that you should stop hurting yourself and stop acting like this.

Do they think that you want this?

Do they think that you like hurting yourself?

Do they think that you like pain and suffering?

Did you ask for bipolar?

Do you know how it feels to gather all your courage and tell the doctor that you always hurt yourself, you always try to kill yourself and he looks at you with the eye of you are crazy and then he tells you that you shouldn’t do that. And that’s it.

I know that you hate nothing more than bipolar

I know that you despise it

I know that you are hurting

But let me tell you that you are not alone.

I am not gonna say don’t be ashamed of who you are because having bipolar doesn’t mean that you are bipolar itself but don’t be ashamed of having bipolar.

Don’t bow your head but instead you should walk proudly, do you know why?

Because you are strong

Because you are a fighter

Because you are a champion.

If you are going through this and fighting bipolar everyday then you have earn my respect.

Sometimes I know you do wonder why you?

Why did God give this to you?

I have read this verse which say that ‘God doesn’t burden a soul beyond that which it can bear’. What this means is that God knows that others can’t handle it, they can’t bear it but he knows that you are strong and you can handle it.

What this verse also means is that you are stronger than bipolar.

Doesn’t it make you happy that God considers you strong?

Keep fighting dear, don’t stop, don’t give up.

Besides bipolar helps you to be able to fight your other battles because if you can live with bipolar then it will hard for something else to scare you.

Keep fighting.

Love never hurts.

Love doesn’t hurt you

Love doesn’t break you

Love doesn’t shatter you

Love doesn’t cause you pain.

Someone hurt you

Someone broke you

Someone shattered you

Someone caused you pain

And you thought that it is love but no, it wasn’t love. For love is the most genuinely and most honest feeling and it doesn’t hurt you.

When we get hurt we normally think that it’s love but when you analyze it then you will realize that it wasn’t love but instead it was someone that hurt you.

Don’t give up on love because of this. I do understand you because once I was hurt and I blamed it on love and so I was like i shouldn’t love anyone, I shouldn’t give a chance to anyone, that I should just give up on love, that I should just turn away and close my heart and never love again.

But then I realize that I was totally wrong, just because someone doesn’t know how to love me, doesn’t mean that I shouldn’t love and be loved.

I deserve to be loved and you deserve it too.

Does it make sense that someone hurt you and now you will just turn away and not let anyone love you?

This person hurt you and now because of him or her you will not experience this beautiful feeling called love.

No, don’t let anyone take love away from you because if you let that happen then you will be missing a lot.

It’s hard because sometimes you might get heartbroken more than once, you might be hurt more than ten times and so you finally give up with the thought that you will never find love and you are tired of the pain and that’s understandable but what if the eleventh one is the real one? what if this person is the person that will never hurt you?what if this person is the one that will give you all the love you deserve? but now you are not ready to give this person a chance just because some fool who doesn’t know what love is broke your heart.

So don’t give up on love because love never did anything to you and it will never ever hurt you.

Don’t give a fuck about what they say

People are gonna say shit about you and that’s it.

It doesn’t matter whether you are a sinner or a saint

It doesn’t matter whether you are a religious leader,pious, kind and giving

No matter what you do, people are still gonna say shit about you and the moment you know this then you become free.

You become free from insecurities, you self esteem rises and you have more confidence.

Trust me this is so true.

Most of the times people lack confidence because they care about what other people say. I used to be like this, I used to care about what people say, I used to be self conscious but the moment I stopped caring about what people say that’s when I achieved my freedom and I became happier.

Not caring about what people say and think about you, brings you a certain kind of happiness.

My Friends tell me how do you do it?

How can you say anything you want to say and do whatever you want to say?

And the reply I give them is because I don’t give a fuck about what anyone thinks or says about me and that’s it.

I know it’s not easy to stop caring about what people say and think about you, it’s a process.

3 TIPS TO STOP CARING ABOUT WHAT THEY SAY

My number one tip to stop caring about what they say and think about you is to go on YouTube and listen to Gary Vaynerchuk. Gary vaynerchuk really helped me to stop caring about what people say or think about me.

These days I don’t go a day with listening to Gary.

Watch his videos and watch them all over again, the more you listen to him then the more you will see your confidence level rise.

My tip number two to stop caring about what people say about you is for you to keep telling yourself that you don’t care about what people say, it might seem silly but it helped me a lot, I will look at myself in the mirror everyday and tell myself that I don’t care about what they say. Just keep saying it and as time goes on you will believe it.

My tip number three to stop caring about what people say is for you to do what you want to do even when you know that they will talk. There was a time that I loved wearing sandals to school and one day my slanders got damaged at school so I had to buy slippers and wear it, so there was a guy who was like you should wear sneakers or something , I believe that you have a pair of sneakers right and I told him yes, the next day I came to school with a pair of sandals again and there was this girl who was with the same guy that said that I should wear sneakers and the girl said jokingly to me, tomorrow if you wear slippers to shoe then i will send you home and I was like this is not slippers, it’s sandals and I went home. The next day i was wearing a jean so I was like let me wear a pair of sneakers but later when I was about to pick the sneakers up, a voice told me that I’m wearing this sneakers because I don’t want them to think that I don’t have sneakers, I don’t want them to think that the only thing I have is sandals and immediately I smiled and I wore my sandals.

I know that they may think that I don’t have sneakers, I know that they may say that I only have sandals but still I wore the sandals because I didn’t care about what they say.

Do what you want to do even if you know that they are going to talk.

What they say or think about you doesn’t define you.

What they say or think about you does mean that’s you.

When someone thinks that you are an evil person, does that make you evil? No

When someone thinks that you are not good enough, does that mean that you are not good enough? No

So be you, do you and don’t give a fuck.

One way to know if you have stop caring about what people say is that when they say something about you, you don’t reply them.

For example if I’m walking and I hear people say that I’m a gold digger or a whore, I’m just gonna keep walking and not say a thing but if it was before, I would had turn around and give them a piece of my mind. Do you know why? Because I cared about what people say, so when they say something wrong about me, I get mad but now that I don’t give two fucks about what they say, so why reply?

Remember what they say doesn’t define you.

Be you, no matter what

You are unique.

There is no human being like you.

You are one among billions of people.

Doesn’t this make you feel special?

So why try to be like someone else?

Why try to be someone you are not?

Why cause yourself unnecessary struggle and pain?

Pain is what you have when you try to be something you are not, pain is what you have when you try to be someone that you are not.

When you try to be someone that you are not, you end up having psychological pain, at night when you go to bed that’s when your brain will start disturbing you and tell you that you are trying to be something that you are not. When you alone that’s when you will feel the psychological effect of your actions.

Today in this world of instagram, many people are not who they really say they are, This piece of writing is a reminder that we should accept our uniqueness and originality.

I know people who have nothing but because they want to post dope ass Instagram pictures, they will borrow clothes, shoes or take a huge loan that they are hundred percent sure that they can’t pay, just because they want to buy designer outfits, some will do things that they don’t want to do, just because they want to please the people on their social media accounts.

Why?

Is it worth it?

Be you no matter what because you are unique

The pictures might please your followers but will it please you when you are lying down at night thinking about the huge debt that you have to pay?

Originality is beautiful. Be you, don’t fake it because if you fake it then people will know. Wear the clothes you have and work your ass out so that you can afford the outfits that you really want to buy, while doing this you will have your peace of mind and there’s nothing more important than your peace of mind.

Don’t get me wrong, if you have designer outfits and stuffs and you want to wear them, then wear them,Rock them and post them but if you don’t have it then don’t fake it.

This is not only about Instagram, even in school sometimes we see our friends do something and we do it, even if we don’t want to do it.

If you like wearing jeans then wear jeans, don’t start wearing dresses knowing that you hate them just because you are seeing people wear it.

If you are someone that talks a lot, then that’s you, so own it. Don’t try to be the quiet person that you are not just because people say that you talk a lot, when you do that it means that you are hiding your identity and originality.

If you believe in fairytale love stories and you believe that your Prince Charming will certainly come then that’s you, it doesn’t mean that when you are among people who don’t believe in fairytale love stories then you should agree with them,no,you love it so own it.

If you are a 40 year old guy that loves Tom and jerry then why hide it? Why do you say that you hate it? You love Tom and jerry and so do I and if people think that you shouldn’t like Tom and jerry then remember ‘fuck what they say and fuck what they think’.

Be you

Be real

You are unique, I am unique and we are all unique, so bring your uniqueness to the world.

Believe in yourself

There is nothing impossible if you believe

There’s nothing you can’t achieve with believe.

Do you know one of the reasons why successful people are successful?

One of the reasons why successful people are successful is because they believe.

They believe in themselves and they believe in their dreams.

They know that they can do it.

There’s nothing more powerful that the power of believe.

Believing in yourself can take you from grass to grace

Believing in yourself can take you from a poor person to a rich person.

Believing in yourself can take you from an unsuccessful person to a successful person.

The power of believe is that it takes you through hardships, meaning when the pain is too much it is believe that keeps you going. The believe that one day you will see the result, the believe that the pain is only temporary, the believe that you will make it.

Any person who wants to be successful must believe, if you do not believe then it will be hard for you to attain that success.

Believe in yourself dear.
#believe #believeinyourself

When everyone is telling you no, when everyone is pushing you around, when everyone is slamming the door on your face and treating you like shit, you need believe because if you do not believe then you will certainly give up. That’s why everyone needs to believe In themselves or else there would be a big problem.

So believe in yourself and believe in what you can do

Believe in your dreams and the power of your dreams

Believe in yourself when it’s tough

Believe in yourself when it’s hard

Believe in yourself when the pain is too much

Believe in yourself when no one believes in you because not everyone is going to believe in you but let me tell you, do not stop believing in yourself just because a bunch of people stopped believing in you, do not stop believing in yourself just because certain people do not believe in you, even if it’s your family and friends.

The only thing that matters is that you should believe in yourself.

So keep believing and one day you will see the results

Don’t Give Up

Do you plan to give up?

Do you plan to prove your haters right?

Do you you want your haters to laugh?

Do you want to disappoint your family ?

And most importantly do you want to disappoint yourself?

I know that you don’t want all of this but this is what happens when you give up.

You get disappointed, your family gets disappointed and your enemies laugh.

Do not give up no matter what because at the end you will see the results

Do not give up on your dreams no matter what because they are worth it

Do not give up on working out no matter what because one day you will be mad that you gave up.

Do not give up on your self growth because there’s nothing better than self investment.

There’s nothing worst that giving up. There were times in my life that I used to give up, I used to workout and after some weeks I will stop and I will start again and stop but now I have started again and I don’t plan on stopping.

Do you know how painful it is to workout, so why workout for three weeks in immense pain and then stop, it doesn’t make sense at all.

That’s the same idea, you are in pain, you are suffering, you are hurting and at the time that the pain wants to bear fruit then you stop, that’s like saying I don’t want the fruit.

So no matter what just keep going, Just keep fighting and one day you will see the fruit, you will pluck it and you will eat it.

How To Gain Your Peace Of Mind

There’s nothing more important than your peace of mind

So do whatever it takes to give your mind the peace it deserves.

To have a peace of mind means to have a clean conscience

To have a peace of mind comes from forgiving people and asking for forgiveness

To have a peace of mind comes from being kind and good to people

To have a peace of mind comes from speaking the truth

To have a peace of mind comes from not hurting others, physically, mentally and emotionally.

To have a peace of mind comes from doing everything you can for you to be the best version of yourself

To have a peace of mind comes from growing everyday, to make progress, and have discipline

To have peace of mind comes from not letting what they say or do, get to you

To have peace of mind comes from treating everyone equally, fairly and justly

To have peace of mind comes from not stepping on others etc

Your peace of mind mind is everything. #peace #peaceofmind #blog #follow #wordpress

You might think this is too much but If you analyze it properly then you will know that it’s not too much, it just simple things that can easily be done.

To summarize it in three sentences.

Treat people the way you want to be treated

Do not let what they say affect you

Always do your best.

I just want you

I don’t want your wealth

I don’t want your cars

I don’t want your mansions

I just want you.

I want you to shower me with love

I want you to give me your attention

I want you to be here for me

I want you to respect me

I want you to tell me everything about you

I want you to ask everything about me

I want you to tell your friends about me

I want you to be honest with me

I want you to make me trust you

I want you to introduce me to your family

I want you to be the first face I see in the morning

I want you to be the last face I see at night

I want you to make me feel comfortable around you

I want you to shower me with kisses and hugs

This is all I ask for love.

Stop Judging Me Based On Yesterday

Yesterday is in the past
Yesterday is no more here
Yesterday will never come back again.
Today is the present
Today is here
Today is what we are witnessing.

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Stop reminding me about who I was
Stop telling me that I can never change
Stop comparing me to who I was.


I agree that I wasn’t the best
I agree that i wasn’t people’s cup of tea
I agree that I wasn’t good enough.
Do you think that I don’t know that?
Do you think that I don’t know my mistakes now?
Do you think that I am not trying to be better?


But do you know what my greatest hurdle is right now?
Do you know what is making it hard for me to move forward?
Do you know what is disturbing me right now?
IT IS YOU.


Stop telling me that I cannot do it
Stop telling me that I am not strong enough
Stop telling me and making me believe that I am not good enough
Stop judging me based on yesterday
Stop being a hurdle
Stop standing in my way.


Everyone always say that people should change for the better but why do they make that change hard and impossible?


If I am trying to change and be a better person, then help me, encourage me but do not stand in my way.


I know that yesterday was important
But today is more important than yesterday.

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