The negative vibe that they send towards you can be changed to a positive vibe.
Do you know why I said this? It’s because I want you to take their hatred and criticism and make it your motivation.
When they say negative things about you, when they say hurtful things, when they say shit about you, I want you to take their negativity as water and use that water to water your garden.
So the more negative vibes they send your way, the more water, the more water you have,the more your garden blossoms and becomes beautiful.
Let me give you an example, few days ago their was this person who was making fun of my accent,this person came on my TikTok account just to make fun of my accent but I didn’t even reply and the next morning I was thinking why will someone say hurtful things to another person for no reason?
Why will someone comment negative things on about a person’s video, photo, blog etc?
So I decided to write this blog, that person’s negativity inspired me to write this blog and that is why I say that you should take their negativity,hatred and criticism as your motivation.
When you are working to lose weight and they tell you that you can never lose weight, use those words and whenever you are working out and you wanna stop then think about their words, that will certainly motivate you keep going. It’s not only about losing weight, if you are working out for your glutes or to gain muscles and they tell you that you can’t,then prove them wrong, use their negativity as your motivation.
If they tell you that you can’t pass your exams, that you will not succeed, that you will certainly fail, then remember what I told you.
When you use their negativity as motivation then you confuse them because they wouldn’t know what to do, in the sense that if they keep quiet and do not say shit about you then you will have your peace of mind and you are totally fine and if they say shit about you, you use it as a fuel, as a motivation and you get better, so either way you are fine and this confuses them because they wouldn’t know what to do, should they say shit or should they keep quiet?
2 REASONS WHY THEY SAY SHIT ABOUT YOU
One reason why they say negative shit about you is because they want what you have meaning that they are jealous,probably this person wants to workout but they don’t have the discipline to, probably they used to workout but due to lack of commitment they stopped and now that they see that you are making an effort, they start hating on you so that you will become like them.
That person who was making fun of my accent,probably the person wants to have an accent but he or she doesn’t and now the only thing the person can do is throw negative shit at the people who have an accent.
When they tell you that your relationship will not last, that you guys are not a match etc most of the time it’s because they want what you have.
Another reason is because they are insecure, they have issues and instead of taking care of their problems they say negative shits and criticize people because that makes them feel better.
A person might tell you that you are ugly and the only reason this person called you ugly is because this person feels that he or she is ugly and to make himself or herself better she has to say hurtful things to someone.
From this moment onwards I want you to use their hatred, their negativity, their criticism etc as your motivation, your water and your fuel. Use it as inspiration to become better.